So far your 2017 was filled up with months of education in a forgein country. It was hard, tough, rough journey. But it was worth the time dont you think?
Travelling allows me to open my mind to different cultures and ideas. It was fun while it last. The moment I spent is the moment i chose to spend.
Being traveller is not all comfy, there was hardships to be considered. budget was the one thing i thought about thinking “is this enough? can make it through the day?” haha
The people i met, thanks for being a part of me during the days. Im thankful to have enjoy the whole thing.
even after university finished, i still crave, dig, and pick on knowledge.
university had blessed me with how i could approach to a cause, or just random events really haha. at first, i had always thought how useless studying is until i realise i enjoyed the result of finished assignments. not to say i enjoyed being stress, quite the forced critical thinking really haha, but I guess that was the only way to unleash the potential within me to brainstorm my ideas onto a piece of paper and ready to be marked.
i would not say i was smart, nor dumb. I was average I believe or wish to believe.
been resting for a few months already, and i am still jobless, i guess i could not care much for now. been chatting and keeping up here and there to getting back my social and inner balance.
if job was my priority, i would have done it anyways haha, but i guess some people have different aims in their lives.
knowing my friends is equivalent to knowing myself. The people i met is the product of who i am.
“you become the person who you hang out with”
This goes with a mindset, example, you can become the next millionaire the moment you meet with 5 millionaires mindest in the group. this allows me to choose my group wisely 😉
after uni, i have been interested in reading people psychologically, hence that’s why meeting people has been always interesting to me. not the fact that i wanted to study psychology at uni, i am generally interested with the philosophy behind it, the reasons and why.
browsing around youtube, i have come across interesting lectures, especially by Dr.Jordan Peterson, i am blessed to have been watching quite a lot of his videos because it IS interesting to me, and how it relates to life.
the purpose of this post was for me to update on the notes i took during the lecture videos i watched and how i come to understand or view it within my intellectual perceptions. i believe this allows me to become a better person in the future
Self-respect: tell the truth or at least don’t lie. – very simple yet not every people can manage it well as to why i note this point
why some people are quiet? they either can not talk or not know what to say.
Be afraid, but be afraid of the right thing to do. and the right thing of what you say is not saying what you say not being.
conscious and unconscious thoughts
conscious but not knowing, trying to figure out who we are; finding a path in life.
the idea of the unconscious mind; conceptions, perceptions and thoughts..shape by unconscious motivation.
a loose collection of subpersonalities each with its own set of motivation
the pinnochio theory, Pinocchio tries to go away from his father to learn something new. too long outside the world cause him to go into a catastrophe situation, Gepetto tries to look for pinocchio and get sucked in a whale(the problem ,after goal) pinnochio becomes clueless and lost in thought, wanted to go back to his father in order to replenish his default state when he was with his father(being safe).
overall, dependency should be balanced, staying too long in a parents house is like a bread staying in shelves for too long(becomes dead,moulded), too long being outside.
aim and purpose:
get what i want by TRY-ing sometimes.
if i want something I can have it.
question: what you want? find your life…sacrificial idea – ASK. be serious with it. –
what am I aiming at?
what stupid things am i doing daily basis? allows deciding what you want to know.
2 things: conscious,
conscious, self-consult. best possible outcome for you, be failure or success? responsibility for myself/yourself
listen and watch, not talk and listen and write . your brain cannot process 2 at the same time. exchange experience step upu the brain process. be oriented properly. write after listening allows brain to recall information effectively.
presenting the point of view, achieve or listen and understand their frame of reference – understand his thoughts and feeling so well that you could summarize it for him.
understanding parents with given culture , tradition and beliefs system
society is deeply rooted in biology and culture for million years, ain’t easy to brush.
we are not suppose to ignore their thinking. we could do this by reviviying instead that could give the best possible outcome to both traditional and modern thinkers.
overall, i learn quite the golden nugget from free lecture provided by the kind sir. until this day i am still interested in the lecture he provide, allows me to dig more of positive information that i could take within myself and implemented in the real world, allows myself to think more, especially trying to have a good conversation and vibes.